How To Have Date Nights While Wedding Planning

We all know that planning a wedding is an in-depth process. You can’t do it alone. That's why some people do it for a living. Whether planning this wedding is a one-person job or two, it's important to have moments where you and your partner slow down and take it all in. Finding time to have date nights is hard when everything revolves around that big day. That is why in today's blog post we are focusing on just that. Keep reading for some ideas on date nights during this season.

To start, we want to address the unrealistic expectations you might have. Dates night during this season doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive. The point is to make time to have that quality time. There are many ways to do that while still planning your wedding. There are options depending on your situation. If you as the bride are the main planner while your partner works then some great ideas will include wedding planning date ideas. If you are both planning the wedding and would much rather take a break, then some lowkey weekend dates can be your best fit. Regardless of your situation, we have some ideas that can cater to any couple in any circumstance. The goal is to connect with each other and not lose intimacy in the midst of stress. It can be very easy to get so caught up in the stress of this day that you become distant from one another. That is completely normal but we want to make sure that you don’t find yourself there. But if you do, we want to help you get out. 

Wedding Planning Dates

If wedding planning is the only time you have together, then take advantage of it. Food testing trials are great moments to turn into dates. Take a Saturday or an evening during the week to turn this wedding planning moment into a date. Get all dressed up, try out some good food and get some pics for the gram or just yourself. Quality time is going to make this the most memorable season. You just have to be intentional. And we didn’t forget about the cake tasting. That’s another great event to turn into a date. You, your boo and some cake. 

Staycation Dates

Once again, we don’t expect you to have extravagant dates. You don’t have to spend more money then you already are! Some fun ways to spend time together are through staycation/local dates. Movie nights, cooking nights, beach days, afternoon picnics, Harry Potter marathon, at-home brunch dates, etc. The possibilities of dates are endless. You just gotta get creative! Pick a tv series or movies series binge it on a free night. If you’re a foodie, then find a recipe you can make together for a dinner date. If you got a major sweet tooth though, find a yummy dessert and get baking! If you’re a little more outdoorsy, then pack a basket with your favorite foods and have a picnic at the park. If you’re near a beach, then go get your tan on before walking down the aisle. Beach dates are a great way to spend time and relax. But don’t forget your sunscreen because red skin down the aisle is not cute. These are just some of our ideas. Feel free to make it your own and have fun with it!

Wellness Dates

For the more active couple, we recommend working out together. Block off an hour or two a week do some couples workouts. This is a great way to spend time but also release stress. Physical activity during a stressful season is good for any individual because of the stress that it releases. Stress creates tension and knots in the muscles so a good workout will really release all that good stuff. Another good wellness alternative is a couple of massge. This will definitely release all stress while also creating an opportunity for intimacy as a couple. So whether you’re going to the gym, workout class, at-home workout, or getting a massage just remember to be in tune with your body. Throughout stressful times we tend to neglect ourselves in the area of our bodies. Becoming aware of it together as a couple not only creates optimal time to spend together but also keeps you accountable. 

There you have it. Some of our ideas for your date nights. Wedding season is said to be completely stressful. And it very well can be. But you gotta make the best of it. It is very easy for a couple to create distance during this time because of the laundry list of things to do. But the most important thing is to be intentional with each other. Make the most of the smallest moments. A relationship is built on that. And during the wedding planning season, you’re going to want to hold on to that. Until next time. Happy bridaling! 

How To Relax The Week Of Your Wedding

Welcome back! In this week’s blog post we are going to be discussing how to relax the week of your wedding. The final months, weeks, and days are all important but the weeks especially. No matter how long or short your engagement was it was probably jam-packed, stressful, and very busy. Don’t worry. That comes with the territory. But these last few weeks should be the most relaxing ones. It’s totally okay if you can’t find it possible to relax. And it’s also okay if you don’t have a worry in the world. We all deal with stress and events differently. So no matter where you fall, we have created a list of some tips and things you can do as a bride before her wedding. All these can be a month before to weeks before and even days. It’s all about you and getting pampered so read down below to learn more.

Skincare

The face is the money maker always. Stress can cause breakouts and we know you don’t want a pimple walking down the aisle with you. This is where the Hydrafacial comes in. A Hydrafacial cleanses, extracts, and hydrates for a glowing finish. This is the kind of facial you want to get before any event. The best way to do it is 2 weeks before the wedding or 4-5 days. It all depends on your skin. But a small treatment like this will help relax you and remove any stress off of you. And of course, make you glow for the next month or so. These facials can be pricey but are definitely worth it. No need to dumb down here. It’s your day so you better splurge on your skincare.

Spa Time

Since we are on the topic of skincare and luxe experiences, we could not leave out massages. A full-body massage will ensure you are physically relaxed. Stress tends to show up in our bodies through our muscles. Working out those muscles and knots will help reduce stress and have you enter into the most zen state. You could even book this massage and facial at the same time. Many spas offer deluxe packages that include all these treatments. It would even be fun to get this done with your sisters, best friends, or bridal party. 

Mani/Pedi

Now this one is obvious but still worth mentioning. Get your nails done! Mani and pedis are in order for this season. Especially for the day of. You’re going to want to get this done a couple of days before the wedding just so your nails are very fresh. For your wedding, you’re going to want to choose a neutral light shade and match your hands and feet. Some great shades are Bubble Bath and Funny Bunny by OPI. If you want to do something a little more fun but still neutral then definitely go for a french manicure. A manicure like this is timeless, goes with everything, and looks good no matter what. Something important to mention is the type of manicure you get. If you’re a mani/pedi every 2 weeks girl, then you can skim over this. But if you’re not, then you’re going to want to get a gel or dip manicure. Do not get regular polish. A gel or dip manicure will last long. About 2-3 weeks so it will look great on your honeymoon. 

Exercise

Next, we are going to touch base on wellness. Whether you’re an active bride or not, physical activity is going to work to your benefit here. And if you think, this doesn’t make any sense, keep on reading. Physical activity such as yoga, pilates, and any kind of stimulating routines are very beneficial to the sleep cycle. When coming upon a very important event our bodies can naturally be prone to over-stressing, doing their own thing, and in turn, taking away your rest. Actively stimulating and working your body will help create a routine of rest that will be very beneficial for that day. If you’re not regular in working out, try taking a hot girl walk or light jog to get your blood pumping. 

Sleep

Our next tip is going to cover sleep. Many times we think that we need the absolute most possible sleep before an event. But truthfully there is a limit to that amount of sleep. Based on research about 8 hours is enough sleep. 12+ hours will actually work against you and make you lethargic. This amount of sleep will also create heavy eye bags which is not a cute look on your special day. So try to cut down on that sleep. Get a good amount but not too much.

Movie Night

One of the last tips for relaxation we are going to give you is to binge your fave shows or movies. If there’s a show you’ve been meaning to catch up on while in your wedding season, now is the time. Or maybe a comforting movie with the girls. This is also the time to catch up on all those wedding movies that you haven’t been able to watch. We’ve got another blog on that so don’t forget to check it out. 

There you have it! A couple of ways to de-stress and relax before your big day. You deserve it. After a long and perhaps stressful planning season, it’s important to look after yourself and have a self-care moment. So if you’re stuck on how to relax, make sure to hit all our tips above. You’ll be more than zen for your day. And remember to just let go and have fun. A wedding is a one-day thing. It can’t be perfect but it can be memorable. So throw your worries away and remember to make the most of it. Until next time. Happy bridal-ing! 

How To Choose Your Bridesmaids Dresses

A wedding dress is very important. It is the most important dress for this occasion. That is obvious. But something that is overlooked at times is the bridesmaid dresses. Bridesmaids’ dresses are important for this special day because they have the job of complimenting the wedding dress. If your girls are gonna be right at your side, they better look good and make you look good. With that being said, for today’s blog, we are focusing on just that. How do you pick the right dress for your girls? Keep reading down below to find out.

To begin, it’s important to keep the bride’s dress in mind. When choosing these dresses for your girls, attire, and style are very crucial. If the bride is more laid back and boho, you’re going to want a dress within the same style. The key is to not overdress the bride. The bride is the best dressed. The bridesmaids are the accessories that compliment her.  The same goes for any dress depending on the bride style. If the bride is in a ballgown, the bridesmaids will need to step up their dresses. A simple slip dress will not do. There is also the question of dress style. There are a couple of ways to go about this. There is the option of identical dresses for each bridesmaid. Different style dresses in the same shade for each bridesmaid. And lastly, the different style dresses within the wedding color palette. There is no right or wrong way to do this. As long as the bride is being complimented. Especially since there will be photos and videos.

Now that we have covered all the territories, let us dive into the details. As discussed earlier, it is important that the bridesmaid’s dresses somewhat match the bride but not identically. For example, if the bride is wearing a strapless with lace detailing, you don’t want the bridesmaid to match that identically because then it would steal the bride’s show. The keyword is complement. 

Different Styles

There are a couple of options and styles that will complement a bride no matter waht. The first is the slip dress. This style of dress has become very popular for weddings. They tend to work for most body types and can be found in an array of colors. This dress can also be formed into a midi or maxi length style. Another popular option is a halter-style dress. This one is most flattering as a maxi length but can also be done in a midi style. A midi style dress will also help “dress up” the look especially if it is a black-tie wedding. Midi styles will suit a semi-formal wedding more. Another style of dress is the asymmetrical shoulder. This new trendy option has been raiding the bridal world because of its unique fit. If your wedding is more modern and trendy, this type of dress could really tie in the overall look.. The last option we would like to share is the classic strapless maxi. Some modern variations have a high leg slit and reach above the ankle if you don’t want anything floor-length.

Body Types & Color Palettes

We’ve discussed different styles which are necessary ,since not all women have the same body type. Now, it’s time to hit the color palette topic. Naturally one would think to choose one simple pastel or dark romantic color for the bridesmaids. Truthfully there is no right or wrong. As long as they’re not wearing white. But a new trend has hit the horizon and we are here to share it. Different shades of bridesmaid dresses. Brides will choose a color palette and dress the bridesmaids in the colors of the palette. This can be a fun idea so that each bride feels unique and different while still complementing the bride. If you’re reading this and hating this, don’t worry, you don’t have to do this. You can totally have the same shade and same dress on all of your girls. But this is an in-between option. Finding a dress that can fit all body times is almost impossible. Unless all your brides have the same body type, you might want to consider dressing them in different styles within the same shade. Many weddings are beginning to do this since it can be difficult to find one very good dress for all bodies. Some women are curvier and some are slimmer. Some are shorter and some are taller. There’s no perfect physique but as a bride, it’s important to look out for your girls. You would want them to feel their best too. The beauty of this idea is that many websites now carry different styles within the same shade to make this plan possible.

We have covered dress style, colors and the picking of them. Remember that these dresses will appear next to you in your photos. It shouldn’t be a stressful process. Do not take this blog as an unnecessary worrier but more as a very helpful tip and push in the right direction. Many times bridesmaids are overlooked and probably don’t even like how they look. Maybe you’ve been there. And this isn’t to say that it is not your day. It is most certainly your day but we want to help make sure it runs smoothly for you and your girls. 

There you have it. The best tips we can offer for choosing dresses for your bridesmaids. We hope that this blog post helped to alleviate some stresses, answer questions and bring light to any confusions. Remember that there is no right or wrong way to do things when planning your wedding day. It will flow how you want it. The one day you get everything you want so do not be afraid to go for it. But don’t overthink it too much. Stay positive in your mindset and just remember to have fun. This day only comes once (hopefully). That is all for now .Enjoy your wedding season. And until next time, happy bridaling! 

Bachelorette Weekend Themes

As 2021 has come to a close, we have decided to take a pause on “wedding dress talk” and instead transition into some girl talk. The fun kind of girl talk. When you become a bride, there are many factors in your life that begin to change. You have to be prepared or at least informed. So take this as your pre-cursor. But for today, we want to focus on the fun part. Some might describe this event as your last hoorah. Your last dance. It really depends on how you see it. What we’ve noticed is the massive amounts of Bachelorette weekend themes this year. If you don’t have a theme, what are you doing? So, naturally, we have a list of themes for you and your girls. These are all original, fun, and totally doable. 

Last Disco

Our first pick is a trend that’s been circling around for a bit. It can pretty much be the theme for any type of party. As a bride having her last hoorah, a disco is definitely in order. This theme can be done for a party or one of the nights of the bachelorette weekend. You and your girls will need some go-go boots, funky prints, and Farah Fawcett blowouts. Think Cher and Cher only. The 70s was full of psychedelic prints and whimsical clothing. Some affordable places to find your bridal party outfits are Shein, Amazon & Shop Cider. The vibes are retro. Besides outfits, you’re also gonna want to have a scene set. Party decor and fun backgrounds are necessary for the post-worthy pictures. And don’t forget the disco ball! Your bridal party will be looking absolutely stellar. 

It’s The 2000s

Our second pick might not be everyone’s favorite but with the Y2K trends coming back it’s a right of passage. The 90s has been a theme for a while and it’s never disappointed. But the 2000s just hit different. Lately, trends everywhere have been paying homage to the 2000s queens like Britney, Lindsey, and Paris. Outfits will be the comfiest you’ll ever wear. Grab your velour sweatsuits and uggs because this one is going all out. You more than likely lived through the 2000s as a kid or teen so you’re bound to remember something. This theme is fun for a Bach weekend because it really is a trip down memory lane. Some other fun ideas for this theme include wearing matching bang-bump hairstyles with your Balenciaga City bag. And don’t forget your flip phone and frappuccinos. 

Bridgerton Inspired

Lady Whistledown has entered the chat to inform you that this theme is for you if the others did not impress. There is no way that you entered 2021 without watching or hearing about Bridgerton. Since this show’s release, the Regency-era style has made its appearance again. We’ve seen it in the bridal trend area and so we had to offer up this bachelorette idea. It’s like a grown-up tea party. Who doesn’t love a good tea party? This theme will be the most elegant and simple. You’re gonna want to pull out the tiny hand gloves and puff sleeve dresses. And if you don’t own any, some places to hit up are Amazon, Asos, and Etsy. When you and your girls finally have your looks down, you’ll need to pick out a Bridgerton name. For the names, everything starts with “Lady” and ends with a first or last name or some kind of combo. And if feeling creative, add your city name for a fairytale twist. 

Space Cowgirls

Next up is for our partier bride. If you’ve paid attention to any of the trends this year (or listen to Kacey Musgraves religiously), you’ll know that cowgirl is the vibe more often than not. “Space cowgirl” to be more exact. This theme is fairly simple. Think music festival without the festival. You’ll need all the glitz and glam as well as some cowgirl accessories. Almost all of these accessories can be found on Amazon for very inexpensive. And the photos will definitely be amazing. This theme is especially fun for country music-loving girls. Having fun is an order for a bachelorette weekend. And with a theme like this, there’s no doubting a good time. As for inspo, Kacey Musgraves Golden Hour album will be the soundtrack to your weekend. This is more than a suggestion. It’s a push in the right direction for your last yeehaw. 

Monochrome Looks

Our last theme is by far the simplest and easiest to pull off. It’s a common bachelorette theme, maybe a little basic, but we can help you with that. This monochrome look is a different one because it won’t be boring. Don’t worry, you won’t look like every other bachelorette Instagram post. The fun thing about this theme is that essentially it will be a wig party. That’s right. Full throttle wig cap in a stylish color of the rainbow bob. This theme has been trending for many other occasions but we think the bachelorette weekend could be the coolest. Once again, Amazon is going to save your budget. The goal here is for every girl to pick one color of the rainbow and run with it from head to toe. We’re talking green hair, green matching set, green makeup look, and green shoes. If you’re worried that you’ll look like one of the many rainbow-colored skittles, don’t fret. That’s the goal. Your wedding day is the day for you to look the most pristine. Bachelorette weekend is where you let loose and have fun. And yes, you will still look cute for photos. 

There you have it! 5 very original Bachelorette Weekend themes. There is no need to be boring that weekend. And if you had no idea what to do, now you do. We hope you found one of these to be your best pick for you and your bridal party. And if you’re not the bride but the bridesmaid planning, we’re glad you chose our advice! Remember to have fun because you’ll only get to do this once (hopefully). Take all of the pictures and tag Brides Of Florida on this special day. Until next time, happy bridaling!