How To Have Date Nights While Wedding Planning

We all know that planning a wedding is an in-depth process. You can’t do it alone. That's why some people do it for a living. Whether planning this wedding is a one-person job or two, it's important to have moments where you and your partner slow down and take it all in. Finding time to have date nights is hard when everything revolves around that big day. That is why in today's blog post we are focusing on just that. Keep reading for some ideas on date nights during this season.

To start, we want to address the unrealistic expectations you might have. Dates night during this season doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive. The point is to make time to have that quality time. There are many ways to do that while still planning your wedding. There are options depending on your situation. If you as the bride are the main planner while your partner works then some great ideas will include wedding planning date ideas. If you are both planning the wedding and would much rather take a break, then some lowkey weekend dates can be your best fit. Regardless of your situation, we have some ideas that can cater to any couple in any circumstance. The goal is to connect with each other and not lose intimacy in the midst of stress. It can be very easy to get so caught up in the stress of this day that you become distant from one another. That is completely normal but we want to make sure that you don’t find yourself there. But if you do, we want to help you get out. 

Wedding Planning Dates

If wedding planning is the only time you have together, then take advantage of it. Food testing trials are great moments to turn into dates. Take a Saturday or an evening during the week to turn this wedding planning moment into a date. Get all dressed up, try out some good food and get some pics for the gram or just yourself. Quality time is going to make this the most memorable season. You just have to be intentional. And we didn’t forget about the cake tasting. That’s another great event to turn into a date. You, your boo and some cake. 

Staycation Dates

Once again, we don’t expect you to have extravagant dates. You don’t have to spend more money then you already are! Some fun ways to spend time together are through staycation/local dates. Movie nights, cooking nights, beach days, afternoon picnics, Harry Potter marathon, at-home brunch dates, etc. The possibilities of dates are endless. You just gotta get creative! Pick a tv series or movies series binge it on a free night. If you’re a foodie, then find a recipe you can make together for a dinner date. If you got a major sweet tooth though, find a yummy dessert and get baking! If you’re a little more outdoorsy, then pack a basket with your favorite foods and have a picnic at the park. If you’re near a beach, then go get your tan on before walking down the aisle. Beach dates are a great way to spend time and relax. But don’t forget your sunscreen because red skin down the aisle is not cute. These are just some of our ideas. Feel free to make it your own and have fun with it!

Wellness Dates

For the more active couple, we recommend working out together. Block off an hour or two a week do some couples workouts. This is a great way to spend time but also release stress. Physical activity during a stressful season is good for any individual because of the stress that it releases. Stress creates tension and knots in the muscles so a good workout will really release all that good stuff. Another good wellness alternative is a couple of massge. This will definitely release all stress while also creating an opportunity for intimacy as a couple. So whether you’re going to the gym, workout class, at-home workout, or getting a massage just remember to be in tune with your body. Throughout stressful times we tend to neglect ourselves in the area of our bodies. Becoming aware of it together as a couple not only creates optimal time to spend together but also keeps you accountable. 

There you have it. Some of our ideas for your date nights. Wedding season is said to be completely stressful. And it very well can be. But you gotta make the best of it. It is very easy for a couple to create distance during this time because of the laundry list of things to do. But the most important thing is to be intentional with each other. Make the most of the smallest moments. A relationship is built on that. And during the wedding planning season, you’re going to want to hold on to that. Until next time. Happy bridaling! 

Where To Shop For All Your Bridal Events

Let’s set the scene for you. You just got engaged and found your dream wedding dress. The venue, flowers, and decor are covered. But then you realize that besides the actual wedding day, you have NOTHING to wear. There are many events surrounding the wedding that are not the actual day that a bride needs outfits for. It’s okay if you just realized this. Many brides don’t realize until they look into their barren closet. But don’t worry, we’ve thought about it and have got you covered. There are a couple of events surrounding a wedding where a bride will need something to wear. Let us name a few: engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette weekend, and the rehearsal dinner. These are the main events most wedding seasons carry. Some brides will combine some events or skip others but overall there are 4 events. These four events are all leading up to THE day. Just because it is not the actual day does not mean that you don’t have to care about how you look. That is why we are here to help you figure what to wear and where to shop for all these bridal-related events. If you’ve just encountered this scenario, keep on reading to see how you can solve it.

What To Wear

Now, we want to keep this very simple for you because there is no need to get overwhelmed. With that being said, we want to present different outfit options. There’s this myth that because you’re a bride you have to wear dresses and they all have to be white. That is not necessarily true. As a bride, white is your color and you’re free to wear it but there is room for more. So let us first debunk that idea. Secondly, is the “dress” idea. Again, as a bride, you call the shots. Because you do, we want to present the option of a romper, pantsuit, and even top/skirt set. These options will keep it fun and different. The wedding day is meant for the main white event but the other events have some wiggle room. Choosing something other than a dress can be fun. Now, if you’re fully a dress girl then go for it. And while you’re at it, experiment with different styles. Midi, mini, maxi, off-the-shoulder, slip, square kneck -the opportunities are endless! 

Places To Shop

Before you ask, we’ve done the research for you. There are many shops out there (mainly online) that have all the options and ideas that you might be looking for as a bride with upcoming events. All these websites range from different prices. There is something for every budget. Our first pick is Revolve. Maybe you’ve heard of them and maybe you’ve shopped there before. Revolve is a one-stop online shop for all your party/event needs. On this site, you’ll have all the options you need. Especially if you’re not looking for a white dress. A dress rehearsal look will definitely be on Revolve. This online shop carries many favorite brands. It’s sort of like a Nordstrom for the cool-girl style. The next online shop option is Lulus. Everyone and their mother has heard of this shop. They are known for having great formal dresses for any event. If any of your bridal events are a little fancier in attire, Lulus will be your place. Their styles range from all kinds of colors and fits. Whether the look you’re looking for is midi, maxi, off the shoulder, etc. This shop is going to be more budget-friendly than the first with many options under $100. They also range in many inclusive size options from XXS-XXL. The next shop is probably the most fitting for this blog post. BHLDN carries all things bridal. From bridal to elopement to rehearsal dinner styles. They specialize in bridal wardrobes and we are here for it. Budget-wise, it is on the pricier side but we know that you’ll find something you love. The colors range from whites to light pinks. They even carry co-ord sets & jumpsuits. Another important detail to mention about BHLDN is that they carry bridesmaids and mother of the bride dresses. This online shop alone will make your life extremely easier! Our last shop to share with you is Lela Rose. This website hits the pricier side but has a variety of styles! Lela Rose is a designer from New York that is pretty well known for her artistic and luxury pieces. This final pick is our most luxurious but quite well worth it. Her pieces and fabric are structured in such an artistic and unique way. This site also carries bridal styles. You will definitely find something to love for any upcoming bridal event. 

There you have it! We hope we’ve helped clear your questions and concerns about where to shop for other bridal events. Decisions like this can be overwhelming during wedding planning season but that’s where this blog comes into play. We strive to answer all the tedious and worrisome questions that may come up. Like we mentioned earlier the wedding dress is not the only outfit you need to buy. And Forever 21 and Zara aren’t going to cut it for this special season. So check out these online shops and pick some of your faves. The opportunities are endless. Whether you want white or not. Or you’re looking for something less traditional for your season. Remember, there’s no right answer. As long as you feel your best! Until next time. Happy bridal-ing!